What was the commitment you made?

When did you make that commitment?

Why that commitment?

Why is it important to you/the business?

Who else is/was reliant on you delivering your commitment?

Have you delivered on your commitment?

What’s the situation right now?

What happened?

When you made the commitment how did you intend to deliver on it?

How confident were you that you would deliver it?

Given you knew ‘X’ how did you intend to manage it?

What are you learning about yourself and this commitment?

What insights are you aware of?

Are you aware of this happening in other situations?

What’s your biggest insight from this conversation?

What learning could you apply to future commitments?

Given these insights, how will you adapt going forward?

What do you need to change to meet this commitment?

How will you know if you have successfully delivered on this commitment?

What other commitment could you test this on?

How confident are you in applying this learning in the future?

How might you avoid applying this learning?